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Chaotic Thoughts: Coming out Day

On National Coming Out Day I came out in a note on Facebook. this is about that. 46 Minutes

The note: https://www.facebook.com/notes/matthew-raving-rendal-ulmen/national-coming-out-day-2015/10153622998480688

Chaotic Thoughts: Ace Plus

Mags is confused about A Positive people and the difference between being Asexual and Aromantic. he also discusses his role as the Husband in the Good Doctor skit the Seduction and mentions the webcomic Girls With Slingshots.


September 9, 2013 (Pride 48 in Vegas, Mags 101)

So Initially this was going to be a thoughts of Vegas show, and then I started talking.

If you wanted to know anything about Rendal, this is the place to go. It is 3 hours and I cover a LOT about what has made me the person I am today. I would’ve liked to talk about this in Vegas, but with my dad there, and technical issues, I never did. I start with a article I read by a transgender woman called “Can I be a girl now?”, this being the topic I wanted to cover in Vegas. then I talk about about two of the events that scarred me growing up, relationships, identity confusion, and yes I eventually make my way to Vegas.

I am looking very forward to Next year and will be there somehow. I hope everyone listening to this understands, I didn’t intend for this to be the show. When I start talking I go until I run out. This is years of waiting for the perfect opportunity to open up. Tonight turned out to be that night.

I have no doubt this will change how some people see me, some in a good way and some maybe in a bad way. Just know that the person you are listening to is the same person you met, and that without all of it I most likely wouldn’t be writing this now.

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